Koj koom rau hauv kev qev ntawm cov chaw lag luam. Koj lub hom phiaj yog los nthuav koj cov neeg siv khoom. Txhawm rau ua qhov no, koj yuav tsum nyiam cov neeg tuaj yeem ntiav. Yog tias nws yooj yim heev los tham txog koj lub tuam txhab thiab cov kev pabcuam rau tus neeg, tom qab ntawv ntawm txhua yam yog ntau ntau cov nyom. Qhov kev lag luam tawm yog qhov kev txhawb rau kev koom tes ntxiv. Daim ntawv yuav tsum muaj cov ntaub ntawv hais txog cov kev pabcuam tau muab. Yog tias koj tsis xav kom nws mus rau qhov tsis tuaj yeem pom lossis txawm ya mus rau hauv lub pob tawb, ua kom nws tsim nyog thiab muaj peev xwm.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Ua ntej tshaj plaws, koj yuav tsum tau sau cov npe ntawm cov neeg yuav tsum muaj. Npaj ib qho kev lag luam rau ib tus rau lawv. Nws tsis yog txhua yam yuav tsum tau hloov pauv tag nrho cov ntawv nyeem, tsuas yog kho cov kab lus sib txawv me ntsis xwb.
Kauj ruam 2
Txhawb tus neeg teb xov tooj kom nyeem koj tsab ntawv kawg. Ua li no, koj yuav tsum ua kom raug, thiab tseem ceeb tshaj, pib nws kom raug. Yog tias koj tau ntsib lossis tham hauv xov tooj txog cov kev pab xauj tsev ua ntej, suav cov kab lus hauv qab ntawm kab ntawv ntawm kab ntawv: “Thaum sib tham hauv xov tooj, koj tau hais…”, “Peb nyiam koj lub tswv yim…”, “Thaum koj tau ntsib, koj hais txog…”, thiab lwm yam.
Kauj ruam 3
Kuj suav nrog kev txheeb cais lossis kev tshawb nrhiav hauv koj cov lus sib dhos. Ntawd yog, koj yuav tsum txhawb cov neeg xauj tsev los ntawm kev ua kom pom lwm tus neeg ua tiav. Piv txwv li, koj qhia li cas cov chaw tshaj tawm nyob hauv ib qho chaw lossis lwm qhov cuam tshuam rau cov neeg siv khoom xav tau.
Kauj ruam 4
Nyob rau hauv tsis muaj xwm txheej pib ib qho kev lag luam muag nrog ib zaj dab neeg txog koj lub tuam txhab, tshaj tawm cov keeb kwm ntawm nws cov tsos - txhua yam no yuav cuam tshuam cov neeg xaum tsev muaj peev xwm, vim koj tseem tsis tau xav nws.
Kauj ruam 5
Piav qhia cov kev pabcuam xauj tsev. Ntawm no koj yuav tsum qhia lub hom phiaj, haujlwm, qhov tseem ceeb, qhov tshwm sim thiab tus nqi kawg. Zam kev paub txog cov lus tshaj lij, cov neeg siv khoom yuav tsum paub meej txog txhua yam, vim hais tias cov lus "ntse" tuaj yeem ua rau tus neeg xaub tsev (thiab leej twg xav koom nrog qhov tsis yooj yim). Muab cov lus sib cav uas yuav thawb cov neeg siv khoom zoo los kaw cov kev lag luam nrog koj. Koj tuaj yeem muab cov khoom siv kos duab (kos duab, duab qhia).
Kauj Ruam 6
Piav qhia cov phiaj xwm ntxaws ntxig ntawm kev ua haujlwm nrog koj lub tuam txhab, uas yog, ntawm no koj tuaj yeem qhia cov kev mob, kev saib xyuas, cov txheej txheem rau kev txais ua haujlwm, thiab lwm yam.
Kauj Ruam 7
Hauv tshooj kawg, suav nrog cov nqe lus uas yuav ua rau tus neeg tau txais txiaj ntsig los xaus daim ntawv cog lus nrog koj lub tuam txhab, thiab koj kuj yuav tsum muab sijhawm rau tus nyeem ntawv qhia ntxiv cov ntaub ntawv nrog koj. Tso rau koj cov npe.
