Kev muag khoom zoo yog ob qho kev tshawb fawb thiab kos duab. Tus kws tshaj lij kev muag khoom yuav tsum paub ntau yam tsis pub lwm tus paub txog nws txoj kev lag luam, txawm hais tias nws yog cov lag luam loj lossis koom nrog kev ua lag luam hauv cov khoom me me. Yuav ua li cas sib tw qhia cov neeg yuav khoom txog koj cov khoom, nce lawv txoj kev ntseeg siab thiab txhawb lawv kom yuav ntawm koj?
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Txhua qhov muag tau nws tus kheej cov phiajcim. Qhov ib yog kev paub sib paub. Tsis txhob tseg lub sijhawm thiab nyiaj txiag ua ntej - sibtham - paub ntawm cov neeg tuaj yeem yuav nrog koj cov khoom lag luam: tshaj tawm, PR. Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog tsis tau qhuas cov khoom muag hauv superlatives, tab sis kom qhia yuav ua li cas nrog nws cov kev pab cov neeg siv khoom yuav daws nws cov teeb meem.
Thaum koj ntsib, qhia tus yuav qhov koj xav paub txog nws. Lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb hauv thawj feeb ntawm kev sib paub yog los pab tus neeg thov qhib, qhib kev ywj pheej hais txog nws qhov kev xav tau thiab qhov xav tau. Cia li ua phooj ywg, cia cov qhua hais lus ntau dua li koj ua ntej.
Kauj ruam 2
Qhov theem thib ob yog kev nthuav qhia ntawm cov khoom lossis cov kev pabcuam. Feem ntau cov muag khoom hauv kev sib txuas lus nrog cov neeg yuav khoom siv "kev siv nyiaj lus" - yav dhau los npaj thiab kho nqe lus. Nws yog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm no tias "cov nqe lus" tsis muaj cov ntsiab lus tsis nkag siab thiab raug siv los siv rau qhov no. Koj yuav tsum to taub los ntawm tus thawj rau kab lus kawg. Thaum txhim tsa kev sib tham, nco ntsoov xav txog qhov cuam tshuam ntawm lub interlocutor. Lub peev xwm los piav meej meej qhov zoo ntawm ib qho khoom tshwj xeeb hauv kev muag yog qhov lag luam tseem ceeb ntawm tus neeg muag khoom. Ib tus kws tshaj lij yuav ib txwm qhia nrog lub meej mom qib kev pabcuam uas haum rau tus neeg yuav khoom.
Kauj ruam 3
Ib qeb tseem ceeb yog nrog kev tawm tsam.
Tsis muaj teeb meem li cas koj piav qhia txog qhov zoo ntawm koj cov khoom, tus neeg yuav khoom yuav muaj kev ua xyem xyav txog qhov kev ntseeg tau, qhov tseeb ntawm cov ntaub ntawv muab, kev tsis zoo rau qee tog neeg rau txoj kev hloov pauv.
Muaj ntau yam uas tsis ncaj qha nyob ntawm tus neeg muag khoom lub zog hauv kev txhawb cov khoom. Qhov no tsis tsuas yog tsim cov nqi tsim, pom zoo tus me nyuam mob, tab sis kuj thaj chaw ntawm lub qhov hluav taws xob, muaj peev xwm txhawb ntxiv rau cov thawj coj, thiab lwm tus. Ib tus neeg muag khoom tsis zoo tuaj yeem cuam tshuam txog cov xwm txheej no, tab sis nyob rau hauv kev txaus siab ntawm kev lag luam, nws yuav tsum qhia kev tswj hwm txog lawv qhov tsis zoo rau kev muag khoom.
Nco ntsoov, kev tawm tsam cov qhua tuaj yeem yog cov ntaub ntawv muaj txiaj ntsig zoo rau koj kev lag luam, lub chaw tsim khoom. Tej zaum qhov muag ntawm ib qho khoom xav tau kev txhawb zog ntxiv (hloov khoom ntim, hloov pauv tus nqi, muag khoom ntawm cov khoom lag luam muaj feem cuam tshuam nrog cov luv nqi, thiab lwm yam). Tshawb xyuas txhua tus neeg siv khoom lus!
Kauj ruam 4
Qhov kawg theem yog qhov xaus ntawm kev hloov pauv.
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los pab tus neeg yuav khoom txiav txim siab yuav lub sijhawm ntawm koj qhov kev sib tham thaum cov paib tsim nyog los ntawm nws. Cov no tuaj yeem yog nws cov lus nug ntxiv, cov lus pom rau lawv nyob rau hauv lub neej tom ntej, thiab tsis yog nyob hauv subjunctive parasite ("Yog lawm, lub tsho poj niam no yuav nplua kuv" es tsis yog "Yog, tus poj niam no tuaj yeem nplua kuv"). Cov teeb liab - kev txaus siab hauv cov ntsiab lus, xav kom tau paub txog cov lus qhia, tshab txhais txog ntawm cov nyiaj txiag sab ntawm kev sib pauv khoom. Muab nyob rau tam sim no qhov kev txiav txim siab muaj txiaj ntsig nyob rau hauv kev txaus siab ntawm koj cov khoom - kev sib cav tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas yuav ntseeg tau cov neeg siv khoom ntawm txoj kev xaiv kom raug.
