Tus naj npawb ntawm cov menyuam yaus lub khw muag khaub ncaws tau nce ntau xyoo dhau los, feem ntau yog vim muaj kev tshwm sim ntawm cov lag luam saw. Txhawm rau kom muag khoom ntxiv hauv koj lub khw, koj yuav tsum xav txog txoj hauv kev tshiab los ua kom cov neeg txaus siab: kho cov khoom lag luam, nrhiav lwm txoj hauv kev txhawb cov khw muag khoom, tsim kom muaj chav ua si hauv khw.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Mus saib lwm lub khw muag menyuam cov khaub ncaws hauv koj thaj tsam saib koj cov neeg sib tw ua li cas. Sib piv cov ntawv qhia, kev tshaj tawm, qib kev pabcuam. Txheeb xyuas "cov thawj coj" rau koj tus kheej thiab xav txog dab tsi nyiam cov neeg ntawm coob. Sim ua ntawv thov lawv rau koj lub lag luam.
Kauj ruam 2
Ua haujlwm ntawm koj lub khw cov khoom lag luam. Cov menyuam yaus muag khaub ncaws feem ntau me me vim tias muaj qhov tsis raug. Khw muag khoom feem ntau yuav khaub ncaws los ntawm cov neeg xa khoom haphazardly - ob qho tib si kim thiab pheej yig, rau cov menyuam mos thiab cov tub ntxhais kawm. Nws zoo nkaus li txoj kev no koj tuaj yeem nyiam cov neeg siv khoom ntau thiab, raws li, muag ntau dua. Qhov tseeb, txhua yam txawv: koj lub khw tsis muaj lub voj voog ntawm cov neeg yuav khoom ib txwm (piv txwv li, cov niam txiv muaj nyiaj ntawm cov menyuam pib kawm), cov qhua tuaj rau koj los ntawm lub sijhawm thiab yeej tsis rov qab los. Yog li, kev muag khoom tsis loj hlob. Txiav txim siab qhov twg yog qhov muaj txiaj ntsig tshaj plaws los muag hauv thaj chaw uas koj lub khw tau nyob, thiab tsom mus rau qhov ntawd.
Kauj ruam 3
Xav txog yuav ua li cas cov neeg yuav khoom thiaj paub txog koj lub khw. Puas yog nws muaj lub vev xaib nrog cov khoom lag luam, koj puas tshaj tawm hauv Is Taws Nem, lossis txhua tus muaj npe? Yog tias tsis muaj lub phiaj xwm kev tshaj tawm, ces xav txog qhov tsim. Qhov no tuaj yeem tso siab rau ib tus kws tshaj lij tshaj tawm (tus neeg tshaj tawm lossis cov tuam txhab), lossis koj tuaj yeem ua koj tus kheej, siv cov kev paub ntawm cov neeg sib tw. Txoj kev yooj yim thiab pheej yig tshaj plaws los txhawb koj lub khw thiab yog li nce kev muag khoom yog tshaj tawm nws los ntawm niam txiv kev sib tham thiab zej zog. Kev faib tawm cov ntawv xa mus ze cov metro thiab menyuam cov tsev haujlwm tseem tuaj yeem ua tau zoo.
Kauj ruam 4
Sim "ua si" ntawm cov menyuam yaus cov whims. Txawm hais tias qhov tseeb yuav luag txhua lo lus kawg hais txog kev yuav khoom ntawm ib qho tshwj xeeb tseem nyob nrog niam txiv, thiab tsis yog nrog tus menyuam, cov menyuam tuaj yeem qee kis tau nce muag rau koj. Tsim ib chav ua si hauv koj lub khw thiab ntxiv cov khoom ua si rau kev kuaj. Yog li, cov menyuam yuav tau nqa mus los ntawm qhov kev ua si thiab yuav cia lawv niam lawv txiv maj mam xaiv lawv cov khaub ncaws, thiab tom qab ntawd lawv tseem yuav hais kom lawv yuav cov khoom ua si uas lawv nyuam qhuav tuav hauv lawv txhais tes.
Kauj ruam 5
Tsis txhob hnov qab txog ntau yam kev tshaj tawm, nyiaj cheb, faib khoom ntawm cov ntawv khaws nyiaj. Qhov no tuaj yeem "khi" cov neeg yuav khoom rau koj lub khw ntev, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias muaj ntau dua ib tus menyuam cov khaub ncaws hauv koj thaj chaw thiab yog tias lwm tus tsis ua lub luag haujlwm ntawd.