Txhua tus neeg uas muag lawv cov khoom lossis cov kev pabcuam, sai lossis ntev, muaj sijhawm thaum qib muag poob thiab, yog li, qhov ntau ntawm cov nyiaj tau los ib yam nkaus. Nyob rau ntawm lub sijhawm ntawd, qhov tseem ceeb yog txhawm rau kom nkag siab zoo yog vim li cas rau qhov xwm txheej zoo li no, thiab tsis txhob muab koj txoj kev lag luam vim qhov no. Tsis tas yuav hloov cov neeg ua haujlwm maj, ua kom nce qib tshiab lossis hloov cov khoom seem
Yuav ua li cas thaum muaj qhov xwm txheej zoo li no? Ua tib zoo saib ua ntej seb lub caij nplooj zeeg xav tau puas yog lub caij nyoog? Tej zaum koj muag lub kaus thiab nws lub caij ntuj no nraum zoov? Ces koj cov nyiaj tau yuav tsum muaj obviously txo ho. Tej zaum koj cov lus qhia tau tas li ntawm lub caij? Yog tias txhua yam nyob hauv kev txiav txim nrog koj, tom qab ntawd xyuam xim rau txoj cai nqe, tej zaum koj cov khoom muag tau raug muag ntau dhau tus nqi? Tsis tas li, nyob rau lub sijhawm tam sim no, nws tsim nyog saib los ntawm txhua cov txheeb cais ntawm koj lub khw rau ob peb lub caij. Tej zaum koj tau ua qee yam uas tam sim no tsuas yog muab qhov tsis zoo ntawd? Piv txwv li, tso kev tshaj tawm sab nraum zoov, nws tsim nyog nco ntsoov tias nws yeej yuav muab cov txiaj ntsig tsis zoo tom qab ib pliag.
Tsis txhob hnov qab txog koj cov neeg sib tw. Tshawb xyuas lawv cov kev muab, tej zaum lawv tsuas yog ntxias cov neeg yuav khoom los ntawm koj los ntawm kev muab cov lus pom zoo dua ntawm kev yuav khoom? Yog tias muaj, tom qab ntawd rov saib dua koj cov nyiaj thiab sim muab cov qhua rau cov khoom uas tau muaj txiaj ntsig thiab. Yog tias koj tau txheeb xyuas tag nrho cov ntsiab lus no, thiab tsis muaj laj thawj, ces xyuam xim rau koj cov neeg ua haujlwm. Qee zaum nws tshwm sim hais tias kev muag khoom tuaj yeem nqa tau dhau los ntawm kev txheeb nyiaj, ncaj qha rau hauv hnab tshos ntawm koj cov neeg ua haujlwm.
Yog tias koj tseem xam tau qhov laj thawj ntawm qhov poob rau hauv cov txiaj ntsig, nco ntsoov tias qhov laj thawj yuav tsum raug tshem tawm. Koj tsis tas yuav xav tias nws yuav ua tiav txhua yam los ntawm nws tus kheej. Tshawb xyuas txhua yam uas koj tau ua tsis ntev los no. Tej zaum nws yog lub sijhawm los hloov qee yam, piv txwv li, hloov cov cai tswj hwm tus nqi, yog tias qhov no yog qhov laj thawj. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv cov xwm txheej zoo li yog tias koj tsis tas yuav ua qee yam yooj yim kom qhov kev rau txim ntawm qhov txo qis hauv koj cov nyiaj. Sim tshem tawm nws, thiab tsis them nyiaj, piv txwv li, los ntawm nce nqi.
Txhawm rau nce koj cov kab hauv qab, xyuam xim rau kev tshaj tawm. Xa cov ncauj lus txog koj cov khoom lag luam thiab cov kev pabcuam ntawm cov ntsiab lus sib tham, tsim ib pawg ntawm kev tes hauj lwm. Qhov no yog dab tsi uas yuav pab nyiam cov neeg yuav khoom rau koj thiab, raws li, nce koj cov nyiaj tau los. Nws tshwm sim tias qhov laj thawj ntawm qhov kev poob qis hauv txoj kev vam meej hauv lub khw yog qhov tseeb tias cov neeg yuav khoom tsis xav tau nyob hauv ntau yam ntawm koj cov khoom. Tshawb nrhiav dab tsi cov neeg muas zaub txaus siab tam sim no, muab cov kev pab cuam cuam tshuam. Tseem ceeb tshaj, koj tsis tas yuav ntshai thiab hloov txhua yam nrawm thiab tsis meej pem. Qhov no yuav ua rau nws tsis zoo. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws hauv kev daws cov teeb meem zoo li no yog nws txoj kev tsom xam.
