Kev mus ntsib cov neeg ua haujlwm se tsis yog qhov kev lom zem tshaj plaws, tab sis nws tuaj yeem nqa qhov tsawg kawg nkaus ntawm cov teeb meem yog tias koj npaj rau nws kom raug. Nws tseem ceeb tib yam los xaiv tus qauv coj cwj pwm zoo tshaj plaws kom tsis txhob muaj teeb meem tshwm sim.
Cov yam ntxwv tseem ceeb ntawm tus cwj pwm thaum lub sijhawm los ntawm kev kuaj se
Feem ntau qhov kev ua yuam kev uas cov neeg them se tau ua yog qhov taw qhia rau tus neeg kuaj xyuas qhov ua txhaum ua ntej kev txiav txim siab kev soj ntsuam. Tshwj xeeb feem ntau nws tshwm sim uas tus neeg ua haujlwm ntawm kev pabcuam yog taw qhia rau cov kev ua yuam kev thiab kev ua txhaum cai los ntawm nws ncaj qha thaum lub sijhawm "tshwm sim". Nco ntsoov tias hauv qhov no, tus kws tshuaj xyuas, qhov zoo tshaj, nws yuav pib pom qhov txhaum nrog lwm tus, thiab ntawm qhov tsis zoo, nws yuav xaiv dua cov kev tswj hwm ntxiv, uas yuav cuam tshuam koj lub neej. Tias yog vim li cas nws pom zoo kom tsis txhob taw tes rau tus neeg soj ntsuam nws ua yuam kev, tab sis tsuas yog kho lawv - ntawm chav kawm, nyob ib puag ncig ntawm cov neeg tim khawv. Kos duab ua kev nco txog thiab kev ua txhaum txoj kev taug pov thawj. Hauv qhov xwm txheej no, tom qab ntawd, yog tias muaj kev thov nyiaj los ntawm kev pabcuam se, koj tuaj yeem tsis tuaj yeem foob lossis tsis txaus siab txog tus neeg kuaj xyuas rau nws tus thawj saib xyuas, tabsis tseem muab tau pov thawj.
Coj tus cwjpwm kom zoo thiab yog. Rudeness thiab tsis kam koom tes yuav tsis ua si hauv koj txhais tes txhua qhov thiab tuaj yeem ua rau cov teeb meem tsis tsim nyog uas, nrog kev sib txuas lus zoo nrog tus kws tshuaj xyuas, tej zaum yuav tsis muaj tshwm sim. Qhov no muaj tseeb tshwj xeeb thaum cov neeg them se ncaj ncaj tsis kam nthuav qhia qee yam ntaub ntawv. Yog lawm, cov kev xav tau ntawd tsis yog ib qho raug cai tas mus li, tab sis koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias kev txiav txim siab ntawm qhov no yog los ntawm lub tsev hais plaub. Nws muaj qhov pheej hmoo uas koj yuav ntsib kev liam thiab raug kev poob vim tias ua rau koj poob. Yog li ntawd, nws yog qhov zoo dua rau kev sib koom tes zoo nrog cov neeg tshuaj ntsuas, thiab tsis txhob sim ua pov thawj rau nws tias nws ua txhaum.
Koj yuav ua li cas thaum lub caij ua tsis raug kuaj se
Hmoov tsis zoo, qee zaum cov cai ntawm cov neeg soj ntsuam mus dhau txhua thaj tsam, nrog rau cov kev ua txhaum lawv ua txhaum. Tej zaum koj yuav tsum tau kos cov ntaub ntawv txheeb xyuas thiab cov lus xaus, uas cov neeg soj ntsuam lawv tus kheej yuav tsum cuam tshuam nrog, sau cov pob khoom tsis tsim nyog hauv lub sijhawm luv luv, thiab lwm yam, qee qhov, cov tseev kom muaj ntawm cov neeg tshuaj xyuas yog impracticable, thiab lawv tus cwj pwm yog tawm tsam. Yog tias koj ntsib cov xwm txheej zoo li no, xaiv tus qauv yam ntxwv ntawm kev coj cwj pwm.
Nws raug txwv tsis pub muab nyiaj xiab rau cov kws kuaj xyuas, hem lawv, thuam lawv. Tus cwj pwm no tsuas tuaj yeem ua rau cov xwm txheej hnyav dua. Qhov kev xaiv zoo tshaj plaws yog kos kom rov hais dua tam sim ntawd tom qab kuaj pom tias muaj kev ua txhaum thaum lub sijhawm tshawb xyuas, uas yuav qhia txhua yam kev ua txhaum los ntawm tus neeg ua haujlwm pabcuam se. Yog tias tus kuaj tshuaj tsis kam xee tsab ntawv no, koj yuav tsum tau kos ib tsab cai uas tsim nyog thiab hloov nws mus rau tus thawj saib xyuas haujlwm tam sim no. Qhov no yuav muaj tseeb thiab raug cai, thiab yog li ntawd yuav tsis tsim teeb meem ntxiv.
