Txoj cai dav dav ntawm kev sib tham txog kev lag luam tuaj yeem tsim raws li "cov ntaub ntawv tshaj plaws hauv sijhawm tsawg kawg." Ib qho yuav tsum tau ua uantej tseem ua rau pom kev fwm lwm tus neeg rau kev sib tham, txawm hais tias nws tsis muaj kev khuv leej. Nws yog qhov zoo dua rau tawm ntawm kev xav thiab tus nqi txiav txim rau koj tus kheej, hauv kev sib tham nws yog qhov zoo dua rau calmly hnov txawm tias tsis zoo rau lub sijhawm.
Nws yog qhov tsim nyog
- - kev paub ntawm cov cai ntawm kev coj ua thiab kev ua lag luam kev cai;
- - txuj ci sib txuas lus.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Hom kev sib tham ntawm kev lag luam yuav tsum suav nrog kev sib txuas lus nrog tus interlocutor ntawm kev ua haujlwm, nws puas yog tus npoj yaig lossis tus neeg sawv cev ntawm lwm lub koomhaum uas koj nkag mus rau hauv ib txoj kev lossis lwm qhov hauv lub luag haujlwm ntawm koj txoj haujlwm, tsis hais nws yog tus kheej sib tham., kev sib tham hauv xov tooj, xa ntawv los ntawm e-mail lossis ntawv xa ntawv ib txwm, kev sib txuas lus los ntawm cov kev qhia tam sim, thiab lwm yam.
Ntau lub sijhawm cuam tshuam txog kev daws teeb meem ntawm tus kheej poob rau tib pawg: tau txais kev pabcuam pej xeem, yuav thiab muag khoom ntiag tug, thiab lwm yam.
Kauj ruam 2
Ua ntej koj pib sib txuas lus, kom meej meej xav txog dab tsi cov ntaub ntawv koj xav kom tau txais los yog, hloov, xa mus rau tus interlocutor. Ua raws li qhov xwm txheej (thawj kev sib cuag lossis tom ntej, uas ntawm ob tog muaj ntau lub luag haujlwm rau lwm tus, koj txoj kev sib raug zoo ua ntej lawm, thiab lwm yam), xav txog qhov koj tuaj yeem txaus siab rau tus neeg sib tham, yeej dhau los.
Los ntawm thawj lo lus, yog tias koj yog tus pib ntawm kev sib tham, nws yuav tsum sawv cev nrog leej twg thiab ntawm qhov teeb meem twg nws daws.
Muaj qee kis, nws yuav tsis muaj hmoo txog kev nug seb nws puas yooj yim rau tus interlocutor hais tam sim no. Hauv lwm tus, yog tias qhov xwm txheej zoo, qhia txog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm koj qhov kev thov kom hais dua.
Kauj ruam 3
Hais meej qhia cov ntaub ntawv tsim nyog rau tus interlocutor, yog tias tsim nyog, qhia meej seb nws puas to taub koj kom raug. Nyob rau hauv lem, ua tib zoo mloog rau sab tod thiab paub tseeb tias koj tau txais nws raug. Yog tias tsim nyog, nug cov lus nug kom tseeb. Nws yuav tsis yog superfluous nug tus interlocutor yog tias nws muaj lus nug.
Thaum kawg, koj yuav tsum sib nkag siab zoo.
Kauj ruam 4
Yog hais tias lwm sab yog frankly tsis ncaj ncees lawm, nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau taw tes nws rau nws nrog ntau tshaj qhov tseeb. Thiab yog tias koj cia siab rau nws ntau dua li nws nyob ntawm koj, nws tseem ceeb tshaj los ua qhov ntawd. Koj tsis tas yuav ntshai tias qhov no yuav ua rau koj qhov xwm txheej tsis zoo.
Ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, cov neeg uas paub lawv txoj cai thiab paub tias yuav tiv thaiv lawv li hauv txoj cai ntawm txoj cai thiab txoj cai. Thiab yog tias lawv tsis nyiam, lawv tseem sim kom tsis txhob npau taws. Thiab vim tias ntxov koj qhia koj cov hniav, qhov zoo dua.
Kauj ruam 5
Thaum xaus ntawm kev sib tham, xaus cov ntsiab lus dav dav thiab, yog tias tsim nyog, pom zoo ntxiv txog kev sib cuam tshuam: thaum qhov tshwm sim ntawm ib lossis lwm qhov kev pom zoo yuav tsum tau npaj, koj yuav hu rau lwm tog neeg, leej twg yuav ua li cas thiab lub sijhawm twg. thav duab ntawm qhov kev kawm ntawm koj qhov kev sib tham.
Txhua qhov kev lav ris yuav tsum tau fwm, thiab yog tias nws tsis tuaj yeem ua qhov no, nws yuav tsum tau hais sab tod txog cov xwm txheej zoo li no ua ntej thiab pib sib tham txog kev xaiv, hais tawm koj tus kheej version ntawm kev daws teeb meem.
