Kev nthuav qhia yog txoj hauv kev kom pom thiab piav qhia rau cov neeg mloog cov ntsiab lus ntawm cov ncauj lus uas koj nyiam. Muaj cov lus tshaj tawm kev muag khoom, cov ntaub ntawv xov xwm thiab kev txhawb zog, cov ntaub ntawv qhia, cov npe, kev qhia, thiab lwm yam. Kev hais lus ntawm ncauj ua rau koj nrhiav tau hom lus nrog cov neeg mloog thiab txaus siab rau cov neeg mloog hauv kev sib txuas lus.
Cov neeg feem ntau hais kom yuav ua li cas hais lus hauv lub qhov ncauj. Tej zaum koj yuav raug nug kom tshawb nrhiav qhov kev kawm thiab siv qhov kev nthuav tawm los qhia rau kev sib tham rau lwm tus mloog.
Ua ntej npaj koj qhov kev nthuav qhia, nws tseem ceeb uas yuav tau txhais koj cov hom phiaj. Muaj peb lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb ntawm kev hais lus ntawm ncauj. Xav txog qhov koj xav kom ua tiav:
- qhia - muab cov ntaub ntawv rau kev siv hauv kev txiav txim siab;
- yaum - kom ntxiv dag zog los yog hloov tus mloog lub tswv yim hais txog cov ncauj lus;
- Tuam Sib Tham - Xa cov lus uas muaj lub hom phiaj yooj yim ntawm kev tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo ntawm koj thiab tus mloog.
Kev npaj
Qhov kev nthuav qhia kom zoo yuav tsum muaj kev tshawb nrhiav kom paub tseeb. Tshawb nrhiav ntau yam peev txheej, los ntawm cov ntawv xov xwm rau hauv Is Taws Nem. Thaum koj tau ua tiav koj cov kev tshawb fawb, pib sau cov lus hais, xav txog qhov sib txawv ntawm kev hais lus thiab sau. Siv cov kab lus yooj yim, ncaj qha, lus qhia kom raug, khoom siv thiab hais lus "koj" thiab "Kuv".
Qauv koj qhov kev nthuav qhia
Kev nthuav qhia zoo pib nrog kev qhia luv luv thiab xaus nrog qhov xaus luv luv. Cov lus qhia yog siv rau tos txais cov neeg tuaj mloog, qhia koj lub ncauj lus / ncauj lus, thiab tshaj tawm cov ciaj ciam ntawm koj qhov kev hais lus. Cov lus qhia tuaj yeem suav nrog ib zaj dab neeg, ib nqe lus ntxim nyiam, lossis qhov tseeb. Npaj pib kom zoo; siv cov lus tso dag lossis hais txog kev tsim kev ntseeg siab. Cov lus qhia tseem xav tau ib qho khoom, uas yog, qhia txog haujlwm. Nws kuj ua rau cov neeg mloog paub txog lub ntsiab ntawm kev nthuav tawm.
Hauv qab no yog lub cev tseem ceeb ntawm qhov kev nthuav qhia. Txhua yam koj xav tau nyob rau theem no yog phiaj xwm. Muaj ntau txoj kev xaiv rau kev teeb tsa koj qhov kev nthuav qhia:
1) Daim Duab: Npaj cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb rau hauv qhov ua tau raws seem.
2) Climax: Cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb tau nthuav tawm raws li qhov tseem ceeb ntawm qhov tseem ceeb.
3) Qhov Teeb Meem / Daws Teeb Meem: Cov teeb meem nthuav tawm, yuav daws qhov teeb meem.
4) Kev cais tawm: cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb yog cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb.
5) Los ntawm tej yam yooj yim mus rau qhov nyuaj: cov tswv yim tau teev los ntawm qhov yooj yim mus rau nyuaj; lawv tuaj yeem nthuav tawm hauv thim rov qab.
Tom qab lub ntu tseem ceeb los ntawm kev xaus lus. Qhov xaus zoo rau kev nthuav qhia yog qhov tseem ceeb raws li txoj kev qhib ruaj khov. Koj yuav tsum xaus lub ntsiab tseem ceeb. Thaum kawg ntawm kev nthuav qhia, koj tuaj yeem nug yog tias muaj lus nug, xa cov ntsiab lus, thiab ua tsaug rau cov neeg tuaj koom nrog lawv mloog.
Txhua qhov kev nthuav tawm zoo muaj peb lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb: kawm, lom zem, piav qhia.
Lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb ntawm kev tsim tawm kev tshaj tawm yog kev tshaj xov xwm rau koj cov neeg mloog, kom rub thiab tuav lawv txoj kev mloog. Cov neeg laus siv lub sijhawm luv luv ntawm plaub caug-tsib feeb. Lub sijhawm no, nws yuav nqus txog li ib feem peb ntawm qhov koj hais, thiab qhov siab tshaj plaws ntawm xya lub tswv yim. Txwv koj tus kheej rau peb lossis plaub lub tswv yim thiab hais txog lawv thaum pib koj hais lus, rov hais koj cov lus hauv ib nrab thiab ib zaug ntxiv tom kawg. Koj yuav tsum paub tias koj qhov kev nthuav qhia zoo heev uas koj tsuas yog yuav tsum tau saib ntawm koj cov ntawv sau cia thaum lub sijhawm tshaj tawm.